Friday, September 26, 2008

Warning: Too Lazy For Friends!

Friendships are hard. Not necessarily the specific joys and struggles that they bring into your life but rather the act of being a friend is very difficult. The phone calls you have to make to "check-in" with one another, the attention that you have to give when the other person is talking, the advice that you have to share to remedy his or her problems. All of these things are both time consuming and exhausting. That is why I rarely do them. Does that make me a "bad" friend? Possibly or maybe it is that I am just ,point-blank, too lazy for friends. Don't get me wrong, I do care very passionately about the friends I have in my life it is just that sometimes I don't have anything to say. So to my friends I tell you this, I care about you dearly and I will call you, it is just that The Office just started back up so I'm going to be pretty tied down...Thanks for tolerating my laziness...maybe someday you will find it quirky rather than rude...maybe.

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